I ONCE DREAMED ABOUT ANDREA MEETING HER GRANDMOTHER

A DREAM MEETING
A DREAM MEETING

My daughters are my pride and joy. I got just what I wanted; I never “wished” for boys. As different as night and day, they both have a way of working Daddy around their finger. The feeling lingers. Melissa holds a seven-year advantage, in time spent and shared. There were many a glad moment when she “met” her grandmother, my mother, spending her last nine months together. But as short lived, they were moments I cherish in my heart. The part that staggers me and saddens this old Dad’s demeanor was that my youngest daughter Andrea had never known her grandmother. I have no doubt that Andrea would have had Mom’s special favor. She has Mom’s smile.

I recently dreamed about Andrea meeting her grandmother. Any other dream would have faded quickly in the early morning light. But this dream had the feeling so real that I could feel Mom’s gentle hand leading me through the mystic midnight vision playing in my sleep filled mind. For thirty-one years she’s been gone, but ever-hopeful, this “one more day” played like it was video taped for posterity. The sincerity of Mom’s smile while she embraced our baby – fully grown and who has only “known” grandma by photos and oft-told memories which she had come to cherish as much as we had in making them. But, there they were a generation removed and settled into the groove that should have had the chance to flourish. It would have nourished both hearts in the lifetimes they would have known. Cuddled close conversing about futures planned and wisdom handed down; secrets shared between two of my favorite “girls”. But all nights do end and dreams do sometimes find conclusion. One final photo, a keepsake to take to my waking moments and beyond. In my dream, my daughter found her missing peace!

It warms my heart, but saddens me that on Andrea’s fast approaching big day Mom an only be there in spirit. But I am assure by the memories of that dream that will be beaming my with such love and pride. Another of her “babies” makes that step fully into adulthood. That shared smile will rule the day!

Daughters find their way
even in dreams they can feel
moments in their heart.

© Walter J Wojtanik – 2017

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6 thoughts on “I ONCE DREAMED ABOUT ANDREA MEETING HER GRANDMOTHER

  1. Beautifully sweet dream! Having lost both of my parents, too, I have often wished that they had been able to meet my children — a daughter, Anne, named after my mother and a son, David. Since they were young, i have tried to share some stories about the grandparents they never knew. I guess it is in our nature to still wish that it could have been more. Best to you and family at this special time and with the upcoming happy event. 🙂

    1. I appreciate that, Patricia! She knows all the stories and saw Home movies. She’s heard her voice. I have no doubt they would have been so well connected. Merry Christmas to you and your brood. I’m excited to add our Canadian “family” soon!

  2. Sara McNulty

    This is so touching and sweet, Walt. My mother always told me stories of her parents, who I never had the chance to meet. Enjoy the new additions to your family.

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